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Do I Still Love My Ex, Or Should I Start Recovering From A Breakup?

March 6th, 2011 No comments

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When recovering from a breakup, emotions are quite difficult for many people to understand. This is because many emotions and feelings are very personal issues, ones which are not often discussed. So, it is easy to see how a great number of people can be confused about their feelings for their exes. In fact, it is not unusual for someone to wonder, “do I still love my ex,” –even for months or years after the relationship has ended.

Figuring out your feelings for your ex can help you to move on to new and more successful relationships. Any unresolved emotions dealing with your ex could actually impact your future relationships–and not in a good way. Once you figure out whether or not you still love your ex, you will be able to deal with the issue and then move on from there.

How can you determine what your feelings are for your ex? Take a look at the following questions and think about your answers. Your answers will tell you what you feel for your ex.

• Do you feel a strong desire to see your ex?

If you still love your ex, you likely want to see your ex or talk to your ex on the phone quite often. Perhaps you have called your ex’s voice mail just to hear his or her voice, or maybe you have driven by your ex’s house or place of work in hopes of seeing him or her outside. Or, you may have “accidentally” bumped into your ex at a restaurant or bar.

• How often do you think about your ex?

If you still love your ex, chances are he or she is on your mind constantly. Whenever a love song comes on the radio or whenever you happen to see a romantic scene on the television or in the movies, you immediately think of your ex. When something interesting or upsetting happens in your life, the first person you think to call is your ex.

• How does it feel to think about your ex being with someone else?

If you are still in love with your ex, the thought of him or her being with someone else probably makes you feel very jealous. The very idea of it might make you feel sick inside, or it may make you feel angry at the other person. You may even feel possessive, as if the other person is on your turf, stealing ‘your’ ex.

Have you figured out how you feel about your ex? Did you decide that yes, I still love my ex? It wouldn’t be surprising–most people who wonder about their feelings for their exes do still have some strings attached which need to be addressed.

You need to make a decision–do you want to get back together with your ex or do you want to get over your ex? Think about this carefully, and then do a search for more information on whichever option you choose.

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10 Romantic Fun Ways To Get My Ex Back….

March 6th, 2011 No comments
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These “10 romantic fun ways to get my ex back” can help you get back together and have a better relationship. But there’s no guarantee any of these will work 100% of the time. You know your ex better than anyone else, so you know which tips might be more in line with their personality.

1. Send a bouquet. Whether it’s flowers or a balloon bouquet, if you time this right this can help you make a real, romantic impression with your ex.

2. Send one of the cards that opens to a song or a line from a TV show or movie that really suits your ex. Whether it’s for a birthday or a holiday, choose a funny, sweet or romantic card to make the day special.

3. Ask your ex on a date, but make it clear there’s no pressure. You just want to spend some time together as friends. Choose a very low-pressure and fun place like the zoo, an arcade or one of those pizza parlors with the arcade games and singing characters that are aimed at kids.

4. Write a love letter. Writing a letter will let you express yourself in ways you might not be comfortable doing face to face. Tell your ex just how much you care and what they mean to you. But remember that everything you write down can be read by other people besides your ex.

5. Write a poem. Writing poetry to your ex is sort of like writing a love letter. It can be much more romantic if you say the right things. Don’t underestimate the power of humor. You probably can’t write like Shakespeare so don’t even try. But make it sweet and funny and your ex should appreciate it.

6. Ask your ex to join you on a spa date. This works very well when your ex is a girl. Make appointments for you both to have your hair cut, your nails done and to get a massage or facial. Doing it together is a fun way to have time to talk and just relax.

7. Ask your ex out on a theme date. Eat spaghetti and watch The Lady and the Tramp. Eat hamburgers, fries and shakes and watch American graffiti. The point is to plan something fun and lighthearted.

8. Take your ex with you to an animal shelter and spend an afternoon walking the dogs and playing with the cats.

9. Go to an amusement park together. Ride the scariest rides and have your pictures taken with your faces sticking in the holes of those wooden cutouts that make you look goofy. Have fun without pressure on your ex about getting back together.

10. Re-create your first date. This is a good choice when things are going well and you feel like getting back together is within your grasp.

One of these “10 romantic fun ways to get my ex back” tips is sure to at least give you both a really good time together.

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