There is one thing you really need to consider, and that is that it’s very, very likely that your ex does still love you.  Love can be killed, and then you can forget about getting love back! If you treat someone bad enough, long enough the love they had for you will turn to disdain. But, in a lot of cases, that doesn’t involve out and out abuse, but rather just a slow deterioration of the relationship where you both start to take each other for granted, the love is very likely still alive and well even though it’s buried and you can’t see it.

It’s in these times that it’s usually the easiest to fan those flames and reignite the passion and love the two of you once felt.  If you lost your love because you were abusive (physically, mentally, emotionally, or sexually), do both of you a favor and don’t even consider rekindling things with your ex, or finding someone new, until you’ve spent some serious time with a counselor who can help you figure out why you have the need to hurt another person, especially someone who loves you.

If the problems aren’t quite that serious and dire, the first thing you should do, is to find out what your ex does feel for you.  The best way to do that is to ask. Call your ex and invite them to coffee, dinner, lunch, a walk, etc. The point is try to find an enjoyable activity that the two of you can do together that will allow you to talk.

This ‘date’ doesn’t have to be a big deal, as a matter of fact, you’re probably going to want to keep things pretty casual at this point. Just have fun. Remind your ex of what a great, fun loving person you are. They probably haven’t seen that side of you for quite some time. It’s hard to be happy and carefree when your relationship is on the rocks, but you can try to remind them how happy you both were, WITHOUT explicitly talking about how to get back with your ex.

Pay attention to the way your ex responds to these glimpses of the ‘old you’. Do they seem interested and engaged?  If so, it’s a pretty good bet that the love is still there. Do they seem indifferent and like they can’t wait to get out of there? If that’s the case it might just be too late and you may have to be ready to walk away.

If you and your ex have a great time, ask them if they’d like to get together again. Still keep things light and casual. Don’t move too fast. Just keep reminding them, by actions and not words, of the person they fell in love with. This will basically allow the two of you to start all over and that is the answer to your question: can I get my ex to love me again?

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When recovering from a breakup, emotions are quite difficult for many people to understand. This is because many emotions and feelings are very personal issues, ones which are not often discussed. So, it is easy to see how a great number of people can be confused about their feelings for their exes. In fact, it is not unusual for someone to wonder, “do I still love my ex,” –even for months or years after the relationship has ended.

Figuring out your feelings for your ex can help you to move on to new and more successful relationships. Any unresolved emotions dealing with your ex could actually impact your future relationships–and not in a good way. Once you figure out whether or not you still love your ex, you will be able to deal with the issue and then move on from there.

How can you determine what your feelings are for your ex? Take a look at the following questions and think about your answers. Your answers will tell you what you feel for your ex.

• Do you feel a strong desire to see your ex?

If you still love your ex, you likely want to see your ex or talk to your ex on the phone quite often. Perhaps you have called your ex’s voice mail just to hear his or her voice, or maybe you have driven by your ex’s house or place of work in hopes of seeing him or her outside. Or, you may have “accidentally” bumped into your ex at a restaurant or bar.

• How often do you think about your ex?

If you still love your ex, chances are he or she is on your mind constantly. Whenever a love song comes on the radio or whenever you happen to see a romantic scene on the television or in the movies, you immediately think of your ex. When something interesting or upsetting happens in your life, the first person you think to call is your ex.

• How does it feel to think about your ex being with someone else?

If you are still in love with your ex, the thought of him or her being with someone else probably makes you feel very jealous. The very idea of it might make you feel sick inside, or it may make you feel angry at the other person. You may even feel possessive, as if the other person is on your turf, stealing ‘your’ ex.

Have you figured out how you feel about your ex? Did you decide that yes, I still love my ex? It wouldn’t be surprising–most people who wonder about their feelings for their exes do still have some strings attached which need to be addressed.

You need to make a decision–do you want to get back together with your ex or do you want to get over your ex? Think about this carefully, and then do a search for more information on whichever option you choose.

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These “10 romantic fun ways to get my ex back” can help you get back together and have a better relationship. But there’s no guarantee any of these will work 100% of the time. You know your ex better than anyone else, so you know which tips might be more in line with their personality.

1. Send a bouquet. Whether it’s flowers or a balloon bouquet, if you time this right this can help you make a real, romantic impression with your ex.

2. Send one of the cards that opens to a song or a line from a TV show or movie that really suits your ex. Whether it’s for a birthday or a holiday, choose a funny, sweet or romantic card to make the day special.

3. Ask your ex on a date, but make it clear there’s no pressure. You just want to spend some time together as friends. Choose a very low-pressure and fun place like the zoo, an arcade or one of those pizza parlors with the arcade games and singing characters that are aimed at kids.

4. Write a love letter. Writing a letter will let you express yourself in ways you might not be comfortable doing face to face. Tell your ex just how much you care and what they mean to you. But remember that everything you write down can be read by other people besides your ex.

5. Write a poem. Writing poetry to your ex is sort of like writing a love letter. It can be much more romantic if you say the right things. Don’t underestimate the power of humor. You probably can’t write like Shakespeare so don’t even try. But make it sweet and funny and your ex should appreciate it.

6. Ask your ex to join you on a spa date. This works very well when your ex is a girl. Make appointments for you both to have your hair cut, your nails done and to get a massage or facial. Doing it together is a fun way to have time to talk and just relax.

7. Ask your ex out on a theme date. Eat spaghetti and watch The Lady and the Tramp. Eat hamburgers, fries and shakes and watch American graffiti. The point is to plan something fun and lighthearted.

8. Take your ex with you to an animal shelter and spend an afternoon walking the dogs and playing with the cats.

9. Go to an amusement park together. Ride the scariest rides and have your pictures taken with your faces sticking in the holes of those wooden cutouts that make you look goofy. Have fun without pressure on your ex about getting back together.

10. Re-create your first date. This is a good choice when things are going well and you feel like getting back together is within your grasp.

One of these “10 romantic fun ways to get my ex back” tips is sure to at least give you both a really good time together.

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Ask for Space

The first thing that you need to do is ask for space. Do so gently, and with the understanding that you are taking this time to think about what she is saying. You need to make sure that you are not smothered. You want to make the right decision. Her emotions are running high, and they may skew your thoughts positively or negatively. Simply ask for some space. If possible, give her a timeline. This will help her to understand how much space you need.

Take Your Mind Off of It

After you are approached, you need to take your mind off of the entire situation. You may feel a rush of emotion when she asks you back. Take a day to take your mind off of the issue so that you can approach the idea with a clear head. Hang out with friends and do things that you enjoy doing. This should help you to take your mind off of the situation.

Consider Your Situation

When you are able to start thinking about getting back together, think about your current situation. Could you handle a girlfriend again? Would you be willing to give a few things up to have that relationship again? If you think that your situation would not be good for a relationship, and you are not willing to change, you may not be ready.

Think About Why You Broke Up

Finally think about why you broke up. Was it your idea or hers? Was it something that she did, or something that you did? If it is something that is changeable or fixable, are you willing to do the work, or give it another chance? This should also help you to decide whether or not you want to get back together.

In Short

It is important to think about yourself in this situation. While you may have your ex girlfriend wanting to get back together, you need to do the right thing for you. Ask for some space when she first approaches you, that’s another way to do it when you’re getting over a break up! Do so in a way that helps her to understand that you need time to think, and that you need some space to do so. From that point, take your mind off of it. You want to think clearly. When you are ready to do so, think about your situation, and why you broke up. This should help you to understand what you want to do.

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